Seven
Oh, my darling daughter. How did you get to be seven already?
It seems that just yesterday I was holding you in my arms, meeting you for the first time. Watching with wonder as you learned to babble and talk, crawl and walk and then run and dance.
You love to be in motion, but find time to be still. You will ride your bike between mailboxes, jump rope and play hopscotch or dance in circles for an hour, and still enjoy sitting and reading a book quietly. And oh, how reading has taken off for you. The world is yours in a book.
You are creative and imaginative. Once you got past the stage of trying to eat the crayons, you have constantly been drawing or coloring or writing stories. You had a lot of inspiration for being an artist from Ben. I love it when you tell people that you are an artist, for indeed you are, my girl. And I hope you never are gripped with insecurity about your art. I hope that you will always proclaim that you are an artist, even as your mother can't quite say the words about herself.
You are fiercely independent and yet still very attached to your family. "I do it myself" was probably your first sentence, and I will never forget your first day at our beloved Montessori school, just after your second birthday. You were the last child on the playground, scooting around in a little car. I wanted to scoop you up and hear about your day, but instead I was greeted with "Go away, Mommy!" And as you've gotten older, you still love school. The transition to public school this year went better than expected. You have thrived - flourished. And learned so much.
And yet, there is a lot to deal with as you get older. You wear your emotions so close to the surface, my dear. One minute you're happy and smiling, laughing with abandon and the next you can be sullen or teary-eyed. Your sensitivity makes you fearful, at times. It is hard dealing with friends who are often fickle and a little brother that at once loves to antagonize you and worships you. I hope you will find a balance as you grow older, and the happy moments will outweigh the sad and frustrating times.
Happiness is what I wish most for you. For today, on your seventh birthday, and every day from here forward. Your name - Aidin Helene - means fire light. And indeed, your fiery personality lights so much love within our hearts and makes us feel happy and blessed to a part of your life.
Happy Birthday, my sweet, serious, smart, funny, creative, dancing, freckle-faced beautiful daughter. And many, many more.









































